Tuesday, 16 July 2013

CHEATING HUSBAND

Have you ever cheat on your husband/wife ? Are you prepare to deal with such situations ? Have you thought of the consequences? I have seen a happy family together but both husband and wife cheat. Best thing is that both are aware and the whole family just kept silence. Even their friends knew about it. Complicated right.
 
Well cheating husband/wife is very common in the world.
 
Listed below are the most common findings about cheating husbands
  • Men are more likely than women to cheat.  It is estimated that close to 50% of all men will cheat at some point in their lives
 
  • Husbands are also more likely to engage in online cheating – using chat rooms, webcams and online services to arrange sexual encounters (including prostitution).
 
  • The more money a husband makes, the more likely he is to be unfaithful.  Having more money brings more opportunity and wealth tends to attract more women
 
  • A lack of sexual excitement or the routine of having sex with the same person often leads men to stray.  Men are more likely to be drawn to the thrill of having sex with someone new
 
  • Husbands are less likely than wives to consider leaving their spouse when having an affair
 
  • A cheating husband is more likely to have an affair with someone who is younger than his wife.
 
  • When having a one-night stand, men are less choosy than women when it comes to selecting someone to have sex with.
 
  • Husbands are more likely to feel that cheating is justified due to the lack of sex within a marriage.
 
Top 9 Signs Your Spouse Is Cheating :
  1. "I love you but I'm not in love with you"
  2. "We are just friends"
  3. A sudden need of privacy - hidden credit cards and phone bills, computer password set-up
  4. "I need some space to figure out my feelings"
  5. Regular work habits change
  6. Spending a large amount of time on the computer
  7. Secretive phone calls and more time spend on phone
  8. Behaviour that just doesn't add up - missing clothing, not present, suspicious receipt
  9. Your own fear and suspicions - your intuition is the best indicator
Communication is very important. Share with one another the problems, your thoughts, feelings, your daily activities, your children, friends, colleagues, boss, the weather, it can be any topics to create a healthy conversation. You do share all this with your friend, why not the person you sleep with every night. I have seen old couples who kept silence during meal time. This is what you classified as "Communication Breakdown". Dining table is the best time to communicate as everyone is gathered around the table. You work from 8-10 hours a day, therefore dinner time is the most precious to spend with your family members. It doesn't make sense why a working person can spend longer time with the colleagues/ in the office and yet not bored with it.
 
Plan for a holiday, a simple candle light dinner, watch a movie, window shopping or a LOVING HUG & KISSES does make a difference.
 
Analyse your current situation now and try to improve it if you still care and love your partner.
 

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